Justin's Trip To The Psychic
Justin: This is so exciting. I have never had this done before.
Mary: Do you study philosophy?
Justin: Not really.
Mary: Hmm...I think J.C. broke the cards.
You're an Aquarius with a Sagittarius moon which make you a good musician. You like a good sense of humor. You like a girl to have a good time. You don't like these Victorian uptight people. You're like, "we're all human here. Let's just drop the barriers and go for it."
Justin: I just got done saying that. That's it.
Mary: That's where you are emotionally and that's what you want in a female as well. Someone with a good sense of humor. In fact, you'd probably like "I love Lucy." That kind of person. Aquarius is the screwball of the zodiac so you like strange and unusual things. You also like people a lot. You get along well with masses. Ronald Reagan was an Aquarius.
Justin: Well I'm not running for president.
Mary: A big major change is coming up for you. You've been making an investment and it's time for it to pay off for you. I would say emotionally and careerwise although the two are so connected. It seems like all of you are moving. Are you moving too?
Justin: I just moved.
Mary: And you're going to stay there.
Justin: I just bought a house in Orlando.
Mary: Did you just get out of a relationship as well?
Justin: It was like a year ago.
Mary: It was a major one not casual.
Justin: Yeah. It was a big one.
Mary: And that's still on your mind. It's as if this person you're starting to see her way of things a little more. Why things went the way they did. It's not that they're unhappy the way they went. You're starting to understand it better.
Justin: Ok.
Mary: In fact, you're going to be talking to this person soon. Was there a lot of battering about towards the end?
Justin: It was ugly. She cheated on me and everything but it's all good.
Mary: She is a difficult person that's the way she is going to be. She would have been this way with anybody. It's just who she is and where she's at. In fact, that's probably why she's where she's at. That aspect in her personality. She's not just the school teacher type. She's someone who's driven, and that's probably why she is successful but you can't take it personally. In fact, she may want to see you again, to get back together but I think you're passed it.
Justin: Right.
Mary: I think you're a little apprehensive about this upcoming year and you shouldn't be. There are going to be a few things in your career that are going to test you. You're going to grow through it. It's not as bad as you might think.
Justin: I just had a conversation with one of my best friends about how these past couple days I've been feeling weird about how everything is going to go this year. Like with our careers and everything. It's going to be a big step for us in our career. It's our second album. Umm. We've done some different types of things. We just hope they work.
Mary: Go with it. It's going to be fine. I see you worrying. You're not much of a sleeper. You probably sleep six hours a night.
Justin: If that. I don't sleep a lot. If I get any more than seven or eight I've slept too much and I'll be tired the rest of the day.
Mary: You've just got to learn to relax if you're worried a bit. I think it's important that you start communicating a little more with your band members. There just seems to be this one kind of little irritating thing there. It's nothing critical. It's nothing major.
Justin: It's funny that you say that because when we first formed the group it was just us and we really got to know each other. We were like brothers.
Mary: But you haven't gotten to know each other since you've become successful.
Justin: Right.
Mary: And it's as if certain things come into play and we may need to talk to talk to each other a little more. Because you guys are different people now. And after this upcoming year you're gonna be challenged. Whenever something good happens, there are going to be challenges on the other hand.
The talk turns to marriage
Justin: I am dating.
Mary: There is something that needs to be finished up with this last relationship that hasn't been. It could be finished in your mind here but it's not finished in the back of your mind.
Justin: That's the truth. It's a situation where I have to see this person. It's not something I can avoid. I really feel like I've dealt with it. I'm seeing other people now and I'm very happy where I'm at.
Mary: I think the older we get we go through different disappointments and this has been a big one for you. You do go through different disappointments. And you say 'I didn't think people were that way' or 'I don't understand that.' And you take it all personally.
Justin: It's so funny when you jump into something new and you say 'this is going to be different' but it never is. You can't change people.
Mary: I don't know if there is going to be a final discussion or something you need to get off your chest but you need to close the door to it. It's right there.
I get a bigger family with you. Not right away though.
Justin: I don't know. I'm not even thinking about that right now. I've got lots of things I need to do.
Mary: It's going to be bachelorhood for a while.
Once you trust somebody you trust someone. You put your all into it. There's no point in being in a relationship if you have to second-guess each other. And you're the type of person who would say we're just dating but I'm not interested in a long-term relationship. You would say that. You're not a fantasy type. You'll say we're just dating and having a good time but I'm not going to be interested in anything further.
You're looking for Loyalty. Maybe it comes up after the fact that she cheated on you?
Justin: Definitely. I think people lose their loyalty because of their insecurities. You get insecure about something and you don't really communicate like you want to and you lose your loyalty just like that. And all of a sudden you're in another situation that you don't want to be in...
Mary: Justin, I get higher education. That was the first thing I got from you. Perhaps a teacher or behind the scenes in the music industry. Maybe a promoter. More like someone who keeps the wheels turning in the business. Maybe a promoter. Someone who runs a record label but definitely a position of power and control through education.
The band has enough challenges this year. Just keeping it together, changing their image and moving ahead will be enough of a challenge. That'll happen.
Justin: It's tough for me to try to have a relationship with anyone because every little move I make with someone that's a friend or someone that I've been interested in has been publicized by the media or super sought out by the tabloids.
Mary: Part of me just wants to say just let that Sagittarius moon of yours carry out and say who cares. The hell with it. It's as if now they're controlling your love interests. If they want to publicize it so what. To a degree, it can't get ridiculous. Don't focus on that so much. I wouldn't.
Justin: I've always been like that. But it has affected the people around me. It has affected some of my girl friends who are around me like they'll catch me and a person in one place and all of a sudden, "They're together!" That's how it always happens.
Mary: I think when the right person comes along for you it won't really matter. That just hasn't yet.
Justin: I've already started doing that - I did a TV movie ("Model Behavior.") Each of us is becoming their own businessman.
Mary: This is the theme I'm getting. Everyone's individuality is going to start coming through but in a harmonious manner for the most part. The acting thing is ok but it's not you. There's something more.
In 2000 you're going to be more emotionally (focussed). You'll focus more on relationships than yourself. And look for somebody who is deep spiritually and emotionally.
Justin: With a nice butt.
Mary: And compassionate. I get a pieces-like personality. Spiritual, giving, loyal true.
Justin: Obviously the album is going to be released in March and we have a tour coming up next summer. But from what I heard, I should let the pieces fall where they may
Mary: This card has come up for every individual in the band. It's a happy conclusion. It's festivities. This year is going to be a pinnacle year. It's a three of cups. It's reunion, it's celebration it's having a good time. It's not a party card but it's the conclusion to something. That's come up for everybody so it's going to be a happy conclusion.
Justin: Very cool. Very good. Something that she said about the two things actually going together. It's kind of dead on. Every move I make I have to think about my career. Right now I'm shocked at what she said about me being overanalytical about my career because this past week I've been totally like what's going to happen what's happen. I feel more comfortable thinking just let it play out. Go for what I know. I think it's cool to think of myself in the behind the scenes because one day I want to get into producing and writing for people that are going to be stars one day. Music is definitely where my heart is.
I think it's definitely cool to picture myself in a different life in the music business.
I totally believe in the mind. We only use ten percent of the mind every day. If only we could use all of it. Imagine the things you could find out about everything. It's about guiding someone not telling someone how they should live. We have to make the best of every situation you're put in.
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